Okay, this date idea is not cheap, but can be done at home and one that I HIGHLY recommend.
90% of our problems with sexuality in marriage can be resolved by learning the cultural communication style of our spouse. (ex. your definition of "fair" may be different from your spouses definition of "fair").
One tool we have to help us understand our spouse's language style is the Jungian personality test. WWW.THECOLORSPEOPLE.COM.
Tonight's date night is to take the test together, discuss, try to understand and accept your spouse's language.
Then ask each other the question " How do you define 'good in bed'? How do you define 'fun in bed'? Which is more important to you?"
Then try to give that to each other. If the answers vary greatly, share. Take turns.
Happy Dating!
